3 Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know!

As my favorite author Cucan Pemo illustrated in his article, I'll tell you now what you ABSOLUTELY MUST know
about your man to attract him, win over his heart, and
grow his love for you!




1) Men can separate their life from their relationship



Most men know how to get themselves emotionally charged for
each of these two components on separate occasions. They
don't seem to connect them together and view them as
separate areas. If it's work they have to focus on now,
they'll give their 100%, and concentrate on getting a good
job done. If it's a problem they have to think about solving
for their buddies, they'll pour their whole heart and soul
into resolving the issue, so much so that other concerns
(including love and romance) have to step aside first. If
it's love they have to focus on during a particular moment,
they'll also give their 100%, and they can be absolutely
romantic!


For women it's different. Once she has accepted a guy into
her life, her relationship literally becomes her life! She
finds it difficult to separate these two. She'll have the
man of her life in her mind throughout every single minutes
of her day! Her thoughts are filled with images of him,
during work, during play, in the midst of her meeting during
work, and even during her leisure time!




2) Men usually keep to themselves, unwilling to talk,
explain, elaborate further if they don't want to.



But this doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, and it
definitely doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. He just
need to not talk about anything RIGHT NOW, there and then.
If you feel that your guy is responding in an unloving,
unromantic and distant way, it's useful to think that guys
have an inner secret chamber where once in a while they have
to go in for their own retreat, to settle their own issues,
to recharge, to live out their own fantasies, or even their
dreams. No one else is allowed inside, not even his
parents.




3) A man's self worth comes from his sense of competence and
success in life, not only from his relationship.



If a man feels that he is not doing a good job in the office, has not
being very helpful to another person, has failed in
completing a task in and outside of the house (whatever it
is), he will NOT be loving towards himself, or even you.
This is why it is important that you do not jump into
conclusion too quickly in the event that you feel that your
man seems unloving, seems to be neglecting you, or doesn't
seem to care. In short, your assumptions or conclusion could
be misleading or wrong!


Do not give up your individuality and dignity after you have
gone into a relationship. Remember, you do not need to earn
his love for you by giving up who you are. One of the most
important, key secret to maintaining a loving and long-
lasting relationship with the man of your life is actually
this: you still respect and love yourself, for who you are!
If you respect and love yourself, your man will respect and
love you!